<<Honestly, some of you guys sound like jerks with your comments about parents. I’ll repeat what I said earlier – what other organized activity for school children (name any other sport or competition) BANS PARENTS FROM THE ROOM! People would be rioting if you did this in a more popular activity like soccer. FIND A WAY TO ACCOMODATE PARENTS OR YOU WILL HURT THE POPULARITY OF CHESS COMPETITION. Sometimes you won’t be able to accomodate parents, but most of you sound like you’re opposed to even trying!>>
Yes, chess bans parents from the room. Every sport has its rules for spectators, and that happens to be the rule for chess (at least in these parts). You aren’t allowed on the field for soccer, are you? Do you expect to sit on the team side of the field during the soccer game?
We can split hairs and make comparisons, but chess is fundamentally not a spectator sport, especially at lower levels.
The way you accommodate parents in chess is to give them a decent skittles room where they can wait for their child and relax with their child between rounds. You make sure it’s easy to get registered. You have someone around to answer parent questions. You treat parents respectfully, and you expect them to respect the rules of your tournament and not look for exceptions for themselves.
Scholastic chess is not about the parent. Scholastic chess is about scholastic chess players.
<<I’ve had a friend of mine that’s constantly run into problems because he wants to video tape his child’s games. NOT the players, just the game. Even when he is able to set up the camera completely out of the way (sometimes even after he has made prior arrangements with the TD/organizer, and received prior permission) he has problems.>>
Good. He should have problems. Imagine a K-1 section where ALL the parents want to videotape their kids. Oi!
The kid’s in kindergarden. Is he having fun playing? Is he winning some of his games? Is he improving? Great! Within a year he’ll be able to notate his games; in the meantime there’s no need to videotape him.
This kind of person really makes me nuts…he goes and gets special permission for himself to videotape. You know, if a TD wants to allow parents in the room, and wants to allow ALL PARENTS to videotape, fine. That’s the TD’s call and I respect that. But why do some people think their situation or child is unique and demands an exception?
Need pictures of your kid? Then do what all the other parents do, and photograph the kid at the beginning of the round. I’m a firm believer in letting parents accompany their children to the board at the beginning of a round. Then, please leave!
<<Keep in mind that it’s the parents that bring the child to the tournament. How many parents have you turned away from chess?>>
Not too many, from what I can tell. Attendance is pretty heavy at our scholastic events, and parents stay in the skittles room.
I don’t hate parents…heck, I’m a chess parent, but I’m there for my kid not for myself.
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