Hey, Lara, good question.
First it would be foolish not to have you seek out the 5th edition of the USCF rulebook which any current active tournament director must have. Go to section 34 and read about tie-breaks to your heart’s content. The summaries I give below are general in scope and do not cover all situations. The point of tie-breaks is to determine who is the “best among equals” for non-divisible prizes like trophies (cash is divisible).
That said, the tiebreaks you mention are used in that order quite frequently throughout the U.S. and, I believe, are the standard at all Nationals.
The Modified Median calculation is to list your opponent’s scores in the tournament, drop the highest and the lowest, and sum the rest.
The Solkoff applies the same formula, except you do not drop the highest and lowest.
Cumulative sums up your scores at the end of each round (1 point for each win, .5 points for each draw, 0 points for each loss). It favors the player doing well early as that usually indicates he faced sterner opposition throughout. For example, two players with 3 points in a five round tournament had these results:
Player 1: Win, Win, Win, Loss, Loss
Player 2: Win, Loss, Win, Loss, Win
Player 1’s accumulated score at the end of each round: 1+2+3+3+3 = 12
Player 2’s accumulated score: 1 + 1 + 2 + 2 + 3 = 9
And thus player 1 in this example has higher Cumulative score over #2.
Cumulative of opposition: you add up the Cumulative score of each opponent of the tied players, and sum those numbers (for a five round event frequently in the 30s-40s).
Of course, computers pairing programs typically perform these tasks automatically.
I hope that helps.